THE ONLY FAIL-SAFE WAY TO MAKE SURE YOU RECEIVE IS TO GIVE!

GIVE Just WHAT YOU Want TO Get!

If you're like the majority of people, you have a curious propensity to wait for someone to meet your needs. This “waiting on others” trend is a bad habit that creates a lot of pain and tension in relationships. It can also be fatal and end a relationship unnecessarily!

Reason enough to examine this habit more closely and learn how to deal with it.

You get everything you've been waiting for, even since childhood, when you start a new relationship: passion, intimacy, tenderness, attention, enthusiasm, and electricity.

You assume you've actually found your Prince Charming (or Princess Charming) and that all of your desires will be met for the rest of your life, “They lived happily ever after for a long time.” You believe that this current level of joy will continue indefinitely, and that you won't have to do anything to avoid enjoying this constant flow of affection and energy from your significant other.

Truth, though, is a different story. Not that your lover likes you less after a while, but that he devotes a large portion of his time and energies to his work, friends, and things he did before meeting you.

You're in a panic. What really is going on? Is he no longer in love with you? Have you been unattractive, obese, or uninteresting? You look for an explanation for why his stream of energy is dwindling.

You were used to feeling 300 Volts from him, but now you have to settle for a meager 100.

You resolve not to allow this to happen, and you insist that he continue to provide you with the same level of service as before. You're based on what you believe you're entitled to and what you think the other person "should" be offering you.

Such an anomaly! Why don't you concentrate on what YOU can get HIM? Why are you so obstinate in your conviction that anything you require should be done for you by someone else? Why wait for someone else to provide you with what you require? Why not treat yourself to it? Why not actually offer to the other what you would like to receive?

You have nothing to lose if you take this path. But I guarantee you'll benefit a lot: passion, friendship, tenderness, attention, enthusiasm, and electricity. That's right! Exactly the same things that the other person gives you for free at the outset!

You have the choice of giving them to yourself and to him. Giving is the only surefire way to guarantee that you can get.

Make an attempt to comprehend this. If you have to wait for someone else to supply you with what you need, you will wait indefinitely and there is a fair chance you will never obtain it.

You get it both ways if you give what you need to yourself and to the other: once because you gave it to yourself, and once because you will get it back from the other. You are free to enjoy your pie!

Why does it work the way it does? And when you offer something, you are tuning yourself to that thing's frequency. Let's presume you're in need of assistance. Instead of studying your partner's actions, facial and verbal gestures to see if he is paying attention to you, you should pay attention to him!

Inquire about his current mood, how his day went, what he heard today, and whether or not he saw any interesting people. I'm sure he'll be interested in you if you show sincere interest. You offer attention, and you will gain attention!

Will you want to be loved? Give love to others! Do you need assistance? Offer me some suggestions! Do you want an energizing boost? Improve someone else's energy level, and you'll see your own energy level rise! If you want people to pay attention to you? Then, first and foremost, pay attention to someone else who wants to be heard. If you want to make more friends? Then make new friends! Do you want your children to admire you more? They must be respected!

So, in order to get what you want, you must first learn to give it.

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